The Power of Costly Signalling (or, How Cookies Got a Guy Hired)
Your message is only as strong as how you deliver it. Just ask Julian (and his famous cookies).
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Why blending in kills your outreach and how to make every message impossible to ignore.
You’re not being ignored because your offer stinks.
You’re being ignored because your outreach looks and feels just like everyone else’s.
If you’re a founder or marketing leader running a service business, you know the pain. You slog through another week of “Hey, checking in” emails, mass LinkedIn InMails, and content that never gets read, let alone remembered.
Let’s fix that.
Everyone’s automating outreach these days.
Research from Martal shows that generic, low-effort outreach often struggles to achieve even a 2% response rate in B2B, with some campaigns converting as low as 0.2%.
Now, think about the last time someone went out of their way just to connect with you. Maybe sent you an interesting link, or dropped off a gift at your office.
Different ballgame, right? Suddenly, you’re paying attention.
That’s the core of costly signalling. When you put real, visible effort into your outreach, it doesn’t just say “I want your business.” It says, “I respect your time, I understand your problems, and I’m not here to waste either of them.”
You want your outreach to mean something? Make it cost something.
Let’s get practical. If you want to break into a crowded account, stop thinking you can buy your way in with another listicle or generic “value add”.
Instead, try one of these:
Why does this work? Because these moves aren’t cheap in time or effort. It shows you’re investing first.
We’ve watched companies see a 3-5x jump in response rates when they commit to just one meaningful touchpoint instead of ten mindless “follow-up” cold emails.
Let’s be clear. Costly signalling does not mean dropping thousands of dollars on the first shiny video agency or sending out branded swag to every name in your CRM.
That’s not a strategy.
Invest selectively. Look for deals that matter (stuck proposals, dream clients, or renewal conversations that move the revenue needle).
Pour your effort in there. Let the rest go.
If you’re not sure where to start, try this:
In other words, be strategic about where you add cost.
You don’t need to nuke your entire system to see if costly signalling works. Just pilot it.
Grab one of those “maybe next quarter” deals sitting in your CRM.
Now, send something so tailored, so obviously non-automated, that the contact can’t help but wonder if you’ve got inside information.
Measure what happens. Emails get replies. Calls get booked. Suddenly, people who ghosted you are making time.
If you see traction, you know what to do: double down. Not everywhere, but where it counts.
Here’s what most founders get wrong about outreach (and growth in general):
It’s not about being everywhere. It’s about being memorable somewhere.
If you want your outreach to stand out and work harder for you, we can help you build and run it. Let’s chat.
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